Man, it is hard not contacting her. We have been joined at the hip for 29 years, and we were always in touch. Now it's cold turkey. It's hard to have faith in the DB process when it seems so counter-intuitive...I just want to tell her I'm there for her! But I am pretty sure that this would be seen by her as pursuing behavior.

I guess this is my biggest 180...she probably expects me to be going crazy and feeling lonely, thereby contacting her. Hopefully this will be seen as new, confident behavior by her.

But it sure is hard.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!