Nothing substantial to add to this thread apart to echo what several others have stated...your revelation / realisation is a big / brave step and you are to be commended for taking it.
I can offer the observation that since I stopped drinking things in all aspects of my life have looked up considerably and if you can stay strong over the early few weeks / months things do become very much easier.
Best - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years