She called me today at work to let me know that she had left her car keys in the car ignition overnight which was very careless of her. (something she always accuses me of). She said it was the excitement of the new TV which made her forget.
Then W went on to talk more about the TV and then about a repair job I did in the bathroom ( W still angry with me... page 11 01/07/08). She said now she feels that we have started to move forward again. Her feeling was in the past she was trying to make these improvements in our lives but she felt she was doing it on her own with little help from me, so in the end she just gave up on us. I told W that in the past I couldn't see that I was doing anything wrong, but over these past few months I've had a long hard look at myself and I can see all of the mistakes I've made. I told her now we need to talk, if something needs doing we talk about it, if we don't have the immediate answer we talk more. She agreed with this.
So we left it at that (cos I had to go to a meeting), I'm hoping W will talk more now but I won't push it.
PS: I had a feeling something would happen today cos when W saw how I dressed for work she just said " Wow, look at you.. where are you going today" this was said in a friendly flirty way.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing