I wished I had a dime for every time I called my FIL or BIL to try and recruit their help in stopping this whole car wreck. When you see a life you love slipping away, you do things that are deperate. No doubt about it. I have stopped doing that...100%. Both my FIL and BIL are devastated by this whole thing. There's nothing anyone can do, and it jsut pis3ed my W. off even worse. You've done nothing that probably all of us on this borad have not done at one time. Let's face it, you are now emotionally wounded, and the emotional fight or flight kicks in. Bottom line. Stop being desperate! No more talks with relatives. It's poison, but you're just human like the rest of us!
