Frank, the fact you went so far as to create a hypothetical "post" that could have been written by your wife if she were here instead of you is very disturbing to me no matter how much of it came from things she has said previously.
I will not abandon you but I think you need to snap it the hell together or seek professional counseling immediately.
I say that as your friend.
Amy
I guess I just felt that people were being too hard on her and not hard enough on me. I don't want to be given any kind of pass because I'm 'frank_d'.