Brit,
This all sound great. Just keep taking her lead. I'll it bet if felt really good for her to be making dinner and taking care of you and D, especially with how much she has relied on you. Since she's been so down lately, it will be interesting to see how her moods swing through this...but based on your last post it sounds like she was on the upswing tonight.

I think you're doing fabulously! You know I really don't use that word enough! Fabulously!

I think the first few days will be the most awkward...you'll settle into a routine and she'll realize she doesn't have to keep you amused. Although it sounds like you're already doing a good job showing her.
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out