I'm sorry to read about that... especially after you've had such a long-term marriage That's a shame. As you probably know, statistically, the chances of OM filing for divorce are low, and the chances of them marrying and living happily ever after are even lower.
But you can't worry about any of that. You just have to concentrate on your own life, and rediscovering yourself as an individual. Thank G your kids are grown. Hang in there buddy.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
