Wow, I didn't realize you would be sharing a bed. That does put a little more pressure. Maybe you should mention that you noticed she didn't sleep well last night and ask if she wants you to sleep on the couch. Amazing how they won't go to the doctor. I think my H is finally getting over the nasty stuff he had.
I offered to sleep on the couch, but she refused. She was talking about getting something from a bed store yesterday, but it turns out she just wanted a new mattress for her bed...
Last night was a lot of fun - W was pretty annoyed when she came home from work, but we talked for a while and she seemed to brighten up. We had a short R talk, during which I said "I don't think either of us got very far by focusing on each other's problems rather than our own" - W seemed to like that, and she really brightened up afterwards. We picked up D, went to Wal-Mart to buy some groceries and stuff, then picked up Chinese food on the way home for dinner. W spent most of the evening after dinner working, so I did a bunch of stuff around the house and put to bed. I went to bed pretty early, but W followed me up a little later - Way earlier than her usual bed time. Came to bed, stayed the night - said she had a good nights sleep. This morning ran like clockwork - Smoother than it used to a few months ago. I got a hug/kiss/ILY when I left for work with D.
Today I didn't really talk to her much, but she called me a few times towards the end of the day - I didn't answer the first couple of calls, but I finally answered the phone when I was leaving work. She wanted to find out who was getting D and what we wanted to do tonight - Actually had a really nice conversation and talked a lot about each other's day. When D and I got home she had dinner cooking and was working on baking some goodies - Not what I was expecting at all. D and I ran out to get her some supplies to make a cake, and she's been working in the kitchen pretty much all night long. When D and I were out, she said she was going to clear out her spare room and get some stuff organized so I can put clothes in the closet and put my chest of drawers somewhere - Came home, and she'd got everything ready so I can put my clothes away...
I'm trying to avoid crowding her at home and feeling like she has to tell me what to do or entertain me. So far I think she's feeling like she doesn't have to do stuff for me, or to keep me amused, but I'm not 100% sure.
