Sorry you are feeling sad today. When your H eventually wakes up, the ILY will not be trusted by you. My H says ILY also, but there is the "I Love her also" part that is unsaid. Sometimes I wonder if the H saying things like these really helps or not. For those whose H does not say ILY but say it when they really mean it, we will know that the H really turns around. For those whose H who would still say things like ILY (may be they think it will make us feel better, or just to reduce their guilt), we will never know if it is for real or not. Makes the trusting part down the road so much more difficult.
Hang in there and take care, LO. You ARE LOVELY!!!