Thanks, I may take you up on your offer. It is so hard, I know just what you mean about being asleep/unavailable but the mouse wants to go down the tunnels thinking there will be some loving gesture at the end. Guess mouse doesn't truly grasp "separation", huh?? Anyway with the kids here sleeping tonight I will have to be here. H seems to think he'll be home 9:30ish which is ridiculously early for me to go to bed. So I will be around, but not initiate any communication, for SURE no R talk or touching of any kind on my behalf. He will be meeting the movers next Tues. during the work day. So no problem with that. I will take the kids over at a different time, maybe Wed., so it won't be "THE DAY" when we visit. I know there will be many more tears but I am trying to be as upbeat as possible in front of kids. I want them to see that mommy and daddy are ok with this (even if we aren't) so maybe they can find a way to be ok with it too. I am doing my best to have no expectations which is super hard. But I am determined to 180 and DB my way through tonight and the nights to come. We'll see how that works....Thanks for the good words!
