That is what I am dreading, my kids crying and asking for Daddy. I know why we are separating and that we hope for a reunion/positive outcome, so if it were just me I would basically be eager for the separation to start the "work on our marriage" ball rolling. But when the little ones are involved it is going to be so much harder...I will take all of the advice here. I don't like blaming either of us either. I think you are right. point out what S is already seeing. We make each other unhappy right now and have to learn how to be good to each other again, something like that...
