Sorry if I didn't clarify. H will not be sleeping at our home one night a week. He will come out, play with kids, eat dinner, etc., then go back to his place to sleep. He just says w/him not able to take kids to school in a.m. it is easier to come out to our place, and I encourage that bc of course some nights I will go out but others I will be around for him to notice!? And desperately want back...hee hee