I took my rings off....in the beginning it was because it was a constant reminder of US and there was not an us anymore...then later when I wanted to put them back on and stand....I couldnt wear them anymore....I had lost so much weight, that they didnt fit me anymore....

I say it depends on the individual...I guess a part of me didnt want other people to think I was holding on to something that they think will never be...I shouldnt care...but I do.

My H hardly ever wore his rings...said it was because his work wouldnt let him......He works at a big plant with alot of safety rules...although he did wear them for a while...now I am beginning to wonder. First time he moved out, I kept his wedding ring. The last time he moved out, I put it in a small box and wrote in the box that I would always love him and sent it with his belongings.

Last edited by kissak; 01/16/08 01:38 AM.
Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10