Thank you! I am trying. It's a battle. There are moments that I just want to run away, but I remind myself of my values and it gets easier.
I'm speaking from experience. I have been D'd for almost 5 months now, and looking back I'm glad I did things my way...not anyone else's. I'm to the point that I can talk to XH and not even get upset anymore....and still being able to have a decent conversation with him means something to me.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."