yup let him peek, be validating, kind but not too gracious or he will run back in. but work on releasing that anger.....he cant possibly come home while you still have that..you wouldnt be yourself ready


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest