Sunday after my meltdown I was ready to let H have it verbally. I'm glad I held my tongue. Monday was a much better day and he was texting me back and forth. Today H sent me a couple of messages also.

I decided not to remind him again to pick up D at the rink. H actually remembered today and called to check on the time of her lesson. H said he wouldn't be able to be there right away and seemed to feel sorry about that. I told him that was ok, get there when he could and I would wait until he got there. We chatted a little when he arrived and then I left. H did tell me to have fun as I was leaving. If he was sincere that is a big step for him.

I treated myself to dinner out and read the stages of MLC. Still trying to pinpoint where he is in all that. As I was leaving there D10 called from his phone so I didn't answer as I thought it was him. She was calling to ask where her lunch menu was. One of those you have to be kidding moments. I don't know if she asked H about it and he told her to call me or what. It is on the fridge where we have kept them for the last ten years.

So here I am at the library living it up. Still need to work on the GAL. After this I am going to live it up at the grocery store. I hope everyone reading this isn't jealous of my glamorous lifestyle.:)


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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