Take the peek out w/ zero expectations...be prepared coz sometimes they run back or spew after a peek...infact do nothing carry on like he was the neighbor down street confiding in you and leave it at that.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest