I wear mine for me and my kids. I'm still married.
I don't care what she thinks.
This is a common discussion and it is a personal choice. MRsH has good reasons for not wearing hers.
As for me... I did not remove my rings. I am married. My ring is a sign of the commitment I made. Whether Sweetheart was choosing to honour his commitment was irrelevant to my commitment.
Wearing rings is much one of the moer subtle Standing tactics. It doesn't mean you are Standing or waiting for them to move home or that oyu will take them back. They may assume these meanings, but that is their problem. And such meanings can be assumed from more obvious actions.
Combine subtle Standing with Self-Focus GAL techniques. I showed Sweetehart consistency. I told him I would not remove it and he saw I honoured that. It also served as a mild reassurance that I was there for him.
But the message may no longer be subtle if you removed your ring and then chose to put it back on--it's a much bolder statement that way...tread carefully in that situation.
