Hey OD, Doing a little better today. I realized that I really need to step back and take hold of my feelings.
My H has always been a self-loather and I agree...I think he has enormous guilt over the "pain" he has caused me. When we started dating again for that month back in August, I would make sarcastic remarks about OW and what he did. Now that I think about it, I don't think he could handle that.
I tend to think H has more narcisstic traits and don't know how much I buy that he has a narcisstic personality. I don't know much about all that, it is something I've been meaning to read more about.
Going to grab something to eat...will write more in a bit.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF