toys are fine for me. I have them. As often as i used to like to have sex and as seldom (in my POV) as i was getting it, i certainly wasn't sitting back twiddling my thumbs waitin on him.
in our Sitch, H feels like he should be able to do it. And really, honestly, i don't mind. I have always enjoyed sex, with or without the O. O is great, don't get me wrong, but it doesn't make me less inclined to want sex cause it's not happening. I know for some women that's an issue, for me, it's just not. H can't seem to wrap his head around that.
I could try bringing it up to him again. Tell him we could think of it as a way to reconnect and try something new together... Nothing like a feild trip to the sex shop. maybe he'll be more open to it now. I haven't asked him about that in a long time.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
Nothing like a feild trip to the sex shop. maybe he'll be more open to it now. I haven't asked him about that in a long time.
