I appreciated your sharing your brief but sharp advice. I have been perusing the BB for nearly a month now and had read some of your posts. They are usually pretty insightful and of course anyone tell is the way it is as far as placing it in the hands of God and thereby showing there love 4 him ranks high in my mind.
Thanks again for sharing. Oh and as far as my W's specific complaints, they are usually pretty non specific. Not that I am a big fan of compartmentalizing people (obviously sometimes there is a need)but my wife shows some signs of being a MLC'r. Boy does that sound like fun for me or what? Many a time a have been accused of being controlling, and it is also her claim about 4 months ago that I basically sealed the deal for her want of a D because she feels that I retreated fm MCing because I was too afraid of my "many" problems being unveiled (she projects an awful lot).
Further and very crucial as far as my part in the the disintegration was my post-1st separation choice too foolishly create an online profile on yahoo personals during my couple of months alone. And after we attempted to reconcile and started cohabitating the profile remained intact until she went into my email and discovered it. She, of course immediately assumed the worst (as always)and believed 'I was sleeping w/ whores and that I was nothing but a big fraud and had everyone fooled in thinking that I was a Christian man'. It made for a disatrous Christmas '06 and this years didn't go a whole lot better even though we tried to piece things together over the last year.
