I understand about the kids. My S calls it daddy's drink. Not a good thing in my book. I didn't do this for her, tried to keep it from my W, especially since she is a C'er, I just thought it would fog her thinking on us. But I had to do something for me and my S.
Ya know, I've been told plenty I'm an alcoholic. But what got to me was I couldn't stop. I couldn't stop buying and drinking once I started. That was how I knew.
Anyone is more then welcome to come share here. I'm sure there are many and few revealed, but remember your hidden on the BB essentially. So don't be bashful.