Stuck in Neutral - MN Man's 5th thread

[phbear316]

Mman

Terrific to hear that you don't have to be around W for tuesdays anymore. Such a load lifted off your shoulders. Also called detatching, so less time with her will make things easier for you.

All i can suggest for the one hour cross over on sunday is keep you self busy. You have the new ipod with lots of things loaded into it. Don't go to her, if she happens to make contact with you from across the room, just wave and say H, and pretend to get a call on you cell phone, or just turn away and start a conversation with someone else. If she does come over to you, then just keep it short, and excuse your self, have to go to check on ..., or i have to run to the men room to wash my hand. What ever don't be standing there waiting for her to come and talk to you.

As far as the D conversation, I have nothing to say, except, talk to her when you are ready to talk to her. Stick to an outline of things you wish to talk about, (write it down who cares) then last but not least, if the conversation is not going the way you want it to. Say, W, i think we have done enough for today, or this is not getting anything accomplished that I wanted to so, its time to end the conversation for now, have a nice day. You control, stay if you want, leave if you need to. Don't let her control you and the conversation. Remember deep breaths, and self control. Don't go down to her level. You are on a much higher level then her. Don't go down to her, make her come up to your level it would do her some good.

Well thats my 2 cents

So happy for you with the tuesday thing.

phbear