Sounds like you've had quite the night/day. So your 8 year old is sick on his birthday? That stinks.
Maybe your W's time at home with you pampering her will show her what she could be giving up. I hope it all goes well. Sounds like you're going to have your hands full for a while.
My prayers and well wishes go out to your and the family!
Hugs from the US.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day