Is it passive agressive? I've never been too sure of what that means exactly. I look at it as doing something for me, getting to bed earlier, and not trying to crowd h when he's around. Good DBing, right?

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08