Just my 2 cents, but about the O's you aren't having. I have that issue sometimes, more often than not. H use to get really bummed because it's an ego thing. One word "toys". Sorry if that disturbs any of you. But, there is more than one type of O and I sometimes need a little extra attention in a on the outside. The act of intercourse is great, but it helped to let H "finish me off". And, it helped both of us: his ego, my satisfaction. I know, I know, too much information. Thank goodness we don't use real names here.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him