LOL

My b-day is the 23rd! How funny is that? (Aquarius rules!)

Hang in there...the fact she agreed to counseling is massive.

I am stunned by how much she has changed for the better after our 1st session. Very encouraging and makes me look forward to continuing.

The 1st session was hardly more than a 'getting to know you' thing between me and the therapist.

But just being there, being open to everything, putting my best foot forward...really seemed to radically change my wife's perspective on everything.

Seriously - she was telling me there was NOTHING I could do to change her mind not 3 days ago. All I did was show up and put my best foot forward in MC and she has been transformed. Very motivating for me to continue with the counseling (and the DB tips...cant stress how helpful they are)

Gotta mean it dude - she will see, she will appreciate and you will be back on your way!

Good luck!






Last edited by EnergyAZ; 01/15/08 09:58 PM.

Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now