Lil Lou-- (BTW, I'm glad you went back to your original name) I tried to be a D.I.Y. / fix it myself guy but it wasn't working out that way. There have been some improvements to the R but mostly SSDD.
When it comes to DIY around the house, no problem. I can even build a house, repair most of the things on a car, even teach myself a new trade if I have the time and $$, but R work, I need help so decided to go back to C a few times.
And if someone isn't calling you back enough …… I was looking at that statement from 3 different ways. I saw the who did the calling as a statement, then possibly a hidden question, and I also saw it from a man’s PO, is he more interested than she is. Even that last item can be taken two ways.
One, why isn’t she more interested and two, If Mo isn’t interested that much, why push yourself on someone. That isn’t good for him or her.
Like you and others say, if there isn’t must spark/chemistry happening, maybe it’s time to look elsewhere. I know some people act interested, but I found out later they were being social.