Thanks Hope...I didn't think about the child support thing. He has a child from a previous marriage that he is already paying child support for. Ironically, his previous W did the same thing to him. She had an affair and got pregnant then asked him if she should keep the baby. He was like 'sure, why not?' then he divorced her.

I am feelin' you on the divorce thing now. I have been struggling with it for a while now. All indications point in that direction. It's just weird that now he is reaching out to me when I finally get over this mess and start moving on with my life.

BTW...the kid is about 6-7 months old now...born June, 2007. Get this, I found out from a co-worker of his, where he works now...first decent job he has had in 10 years....at the job that I helped him get! How ironic is that....I spoke to the Director of the place he is working and they hired him...so I guess I helped him end our marriage, huh??

LJ