Just a thought; Intimacy (not sex, but all the 'other stuff' as you put it) is more emotional than physical.I've read your sitch, but am unfamiliar with the timetable. I get the impression that it's not LSD as much as LI(intimacy)D.
yeah. I'm thinking the same thing. I enjoy the physical act of sex. I think (thank you Dom) that i'm able to have sex because it's just physical and I leave out all the emotional connection. It's probably some sort of mental thing that i did to help me get through when I couldn't get into the sex part.
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You've mentioned that you've 'had practice' at this pregnancy thing, have you experienced this before and maybe not noticed it as different than SD?
Acutally, I've been even more sexually and emotionally connected during my 3 other pregnancies than when i'm not pregnant.
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I realize most of us are hyper-sensitive emotionally, just because of the sitc we find ourselves in, and I'm probably grasping at straws, but your mention of being physically sensitive has me wondering if there's something hormonal that's complicating this for you. Maybe you're 'emotionally' sensitive (related to pregnancy, not R) too?
I don't know. this pregnancy could be different. It could be a combination of where I am. Maybe the hormones amplify the feelings that i currently have. When i was happy and in love and emotionally connected, I became more-so, but now that I'm not, maybe it's causing me to feel more of the same... I don't know. I do know that I did have the same skin sensitivity during the previous pregnancies. It's not that he can't touch me, it's just a certain way (and he knows what it is). Also, i know that the lack of attraction, desire and emotions started before i got pregnant.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
