(((LJ)))). I don't even know what to say. I have often played that scenario over and over in my own head and I have not clue what I would do. First off, be thankful that you at least have some insight into why he was funny actiing. I know it does not make things better, but it does help to know if was not something you did. He had his own crap to deal with and he did not know how to. This is a pretty big one to get over especially seeing as how you wanted kids yourself with him. Honestly I don't think I could forgive this one. This will be a constant reminder of what has happened. I am pretty sure it won't work out with his new woman. It never does in these cases. My H's mom was the other woman and my H's dad got her pregnant with two kids back to back. She was pregnant again by the time she went for her 6 week visit. I actually think he did go back to his wife, but I don't think things were the same and my H and is sister got the short end of the stick. To be honest I think you deserve better than this fool. You don't need this. Does not really seem like he can stand on hin own two feet. If you thought he was broke before he is REALLY going to be broke now. I say cry lots of tears, get some therapy if you need to and post on the board. Feel free to email or call me if you need to. Let him go on and his live his life. He is her problem now. Don't pray for him. Pray for his unborn child because that is who is going to need it. Start D proceedings ASAP because if she goes after child support if you are still married they can come after you. BTW how did you find out>
Also, I did not get your email. Sent it again. I am merrifamily3@sbcglobal.net. I would love to hang out, maybe get a drink or something.
