I took mine off for a long time. I saw it every day when getting ready in the morning. When I was in C, I mentioned to him that I miss wearing it and it doesn't feel right not wearing since I'm still married. I decided to put it on again. The next time I saw C, he said he was going to recommend I wear it again to see if I feel better. I've left it on since and H doesn't seem to mind. Like Jack said, it's not about him, it's about me and my beliefs/feelings.