Ummm...Agreed Saffie. Though, ummm, chicks are sure tougher on other chicks.
Frank you are focusing all your intellect, energy, attention (No I am not a new age crystal hugger) ALL of it on the negatives. You're a brainiac and all your research and reading that's all your doing. Do something active beyond plotting, planning and talking.
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