Hey SO2, I don't know if I recommended this to you or not...I told someone here about it but I can't remember who! Anyway, I'm reading a book right now called "Good Parenting Through Your Divorce" by Mary Ellen Hannibal. I HATED having to buy this book, but it is really helpful. It is really geared toward to kids best interest and talks of the impacts on children from newborn to adult. It gives a range of perspective and that's exactly what I need to make the best decisions. I'm still hopeful this won't end in divorce...but the book really helps me keep my kids best interest in mind. And ultimately NOTHING is more important than that. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out