Starting to get it.... my 3rd thread

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I sent H a few flirty text messages. I used to do that, so i was thinking he'd like that. Also, it was kinda my subliminal way of letting him know that his changes didn't go unnoticed...

One of the things i have always wanted is to sit at the table, TV off and eat dinner as a family. H prefers to eat on the couch in front of the TV and watch whatever. This has never been a source of arguement, but it is something that i've said I'd like. We did that when i grew up and I loved those times.

I got home last night and the kitchen table was cleared and set. plates, silverware, napkins... i cooked dinner and he got drinks and got the girls to the table. WOW. We all talked (the baby tried and we all got a good laugh. hehe) It was really nice. H told the girls and me by default, that this was how we'd be eating dinner now most nights. I was really happy.

Evening went well. Watched a movie together... peaceful relaxing. Read a book in bed while H finished a movie on his PSP that i didn't care to see.

and now for the portion of the evening that always seems to cause problems...

H has reverted to almost turning his requests into a joke in the bedroom and at other various times... "hey, give me some sugar, sugar" Why do i feel like that is a bad line from a cheesy bar seen in a movie... blah. Anyways. I get over that, no biggie, just laugh it off since he's using some odd voice that just sounded wrong.

K - pregnant women's breasts are more sensitive than they normally are. Maybe not all, but me and at least some of the women I've talked to. H did something, don't know for sure and it hurt a bit. I asked him to be careful... oops.

H: i didn't even hurt you.
M: it hurt just a little bit, so i asked you to be careful
H: i hardly touched you
M: i know, it's just really sensitive
H: you always say the same thing
M: that's cause you keep doing it an it hurts.

H rolls over and pouts... *mental eyeroll* anyways. A bit later, i initiated with him and things went fine til I didn't have an O, not a big deal, doesn't happen that often anyways. For some reason H got all bent out of shape about feeling bad cause i didn't. I told H I've always enjoyed sex just for the act itself and reminded him about my back ache. (I don't if i'm in pain. I was, so... duh) anyways... H calmed down and i went to sleep. H watched some tv...

Wasn't terrible, except i'm finding myself unable to get past the ickiness of all the nice stuff (kissing, holding, rubbing, grabbing etc...) seems like i'm ok w/ the sex itself, i just have to get past the foreplay part, which is/was in my opinion a really important part... you know...all that stuff that takes it from sex to ML.