Long and Bumpy Road #3

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Jenny: I did read the link you sent. It's out of Dobson's book right? I have read that book over and over.

Yes, H's ex knows about his drinking and looks the other way. Why I don't know. She just had twins with her new husband and H is a good taxi and distractor for her girls I guess.

When I look at the pattern of the past 18 months nothing has changed. H continues down his same cake eating road. One of us has to stop it and its not going to be him. It will have to be me. I plan on coparenting this baby with him and following a plan as we are divorced. No more. Setting up a routine and schedule for him to see her. He will not like being told what he can and can not do, especially by me. So far he has walked all over me and it cannot disrupt my life or my kids life anymore.