Amy, why do you say in a previous post she is a 'liability'?
As always I understand the 'stop focusing on her'. It's hard because she promised she'd never leave again, that she'd 'learned' that running away from problems doesn't work.
Now, her biggest 'sadness' is that she couldn't keep her commitment, and she couldn't make her marriage work.
I don't get what that means. I want it to mean she is 'confused' and she'll 'wake up' and choose to make it work. But her actions show more and more detachment. Which means she is really done, and going out the door.