If the guy is wondering if he is calling too much, then he is probably calling too much.
Or, he could try the direct approach with Mojo and say... "I'm getting uncomfortable calling so much. It feels one-ended to me." I mean... if he's calling every day, Mo doesn't have to. It might not even occur to her to call... because he does. There is no patience on this guy's part, when he calls every day... and he is a Captain of Industry. That doesn't match up to me.
But what I see as manipulative is a comment that appears to be out right fishing... like the one he made to Mojo. I see it as P/A behavior. He is trying to make a problem hers when he's the one who is feeling insecure.
So, tell your friend NOT to do that.
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Does anyone have an opinion about what works and doesn’t work for a 36 Yr old male, with a good job and a stable life, trying out internet dating because he lives in a remote town and doesn’t hang out at bars.
Does he have a Community Center in his town, or close by? If he is going to do online dating, he kind of has to play by the rules... if it is a 'woman's atmosphere,' and he doesn't like it, he should move on... or learn to like beer.
