Separated and unsure how to proceed

[ms ladybug]

I'm glad to hear you're not going back to your counselor. It's great that they helped you with your past issues, and that may be their strong point. But, clearly marriage is not their counseling forte.

I'm also in the process of finding a new counselor. My insurance only pays for 20 sessions/yr, and I hate to waste that 20 finding the right one. I need a strong counselor (Dr. Phil type) who can give it to me straight. My last C was so mamby-pamby about everything. Very sweet, but very short on the strong advice.

Best of luck in your search. Keep us updated.