Mike,

Be careful what you asked for. There was never a ime when I snooped that I ended up feeling any better about anything. Even if I found nothing, I got so spun up, I stated creating imaginary scenarios in my head. It makes things worse ALL THE TIME! Mike: start right now making plans for YOU. DETACH, DETACH, DETACH. You're letting her actions control you. I think we all do it, but don't recognize it in ourselves!