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[ntl]

I think that's the way you need to treat OM at this point, with indifference.

I so agree. And with kindness. One thing that helps me is if I try to envision my H as a friend from out of town. I always ask myself, "If this was (friend from out of town), how would I react in this situation, or, what would I be doing or saying?"

It really puts things in perspective and helps me make better decisions about my reactions.

Regards,

ntl