Good to hear from you. Upside makes some really good points for you to consider.
Congrats on the job offer. I know it's a tough choice. Just know you can do what you need to and make the best of it.
I disagree with your statement that this bb is for standers. When folks come here it's with the intent to save their M. We all know this doesn't always happen and I've read some great support for those struggling to move foward and GAL that did not include their spouse.
You sound pretty good and I like the strength in your statement regarding the finances.
We make a pretty good sounding board here, so keep posting. HUGS
