jak, you sound good!! I love that kind of cleaning - just feel so organized afterwards. I don't necessarily enjoy it WHILE doing it, but bet it's so nice to walk in and the shop's all clean and ready to go.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
I believe this needs to be my cleaning weekend!! I need to feel I have control of something and right now I certainly don't have control of the housework!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Things are going pretty good. H seems to be settling in to his old self. Not quite as attentive but more relaxed in the r where he doesn't have to feel he has to entertain so much i think. At least I hope that is what it is as Im still very much on my guard.
I need to try to get out on my own even more but have had a mild vertigo for a week and haven't been able to work or drive or go out so have to do double time when im all better.
Mat, have to check out your sitch but i hope you are doing well too. Also hope you aren't letting H take you for granted stand firm hon.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I don't have any idea when i will feel more comfortable in my M again but hope to be able to at some point. H is never going to talk about this i feel so i think it may take longer for me. I don't know where he is on his journey so i have to play it as i see it and draw my own conclusions. SUCKS
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Hi Jak...I have been thinking of you and know you have been in and out here. Hope all is going good.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Not quite as attentive but more relaxed in the r where he doesn't have to feel he has to entertain so much i think. At least I hope that is what it is as Im still very much on my guard.