Frank..XXX asked me to read her paper the other day. Do I care right now? Not really. Did I read it? Yes.

W: Well..what do you think?
Me; I think its great. It sounds like a professor wrote it.
W: My mother did the English professor thing and changed too much meaning in it by correcting too much of what I wrote.
Me: Well....that's what English profs do.

End of convo. Why did she ask me to read it? She asks me to read her paper...to go places with me when I take the kids...to go places with her when she takes the kids...heats me up dinner, etc. Why? Who knows? No one here does. Probably no one knows except her.

She told you she wants out. You need to get to a place of EVENTUALLY...coparenting with her.

Focus on you. Do what you feel. No need for anger. No need to be her best friend. Be yourself. DB'ing is done. You are all Frank D now. FIB

Last edited by faithisbelieving; 01/15/08 05:03 PM.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;