Minkerman, hang in there. You want it to be fixed TODAY, but it may take a long time. It's a rollercoaster. Don't let yourself get too worked up about the highs and the lows. Just be prepared for a ride, you don't know how long it will be.
GALing really helps for that part.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....