Don't be too hard on yourself, Dave. What's done is done. Focus on being the best Dave, today. You are not a moron. Just human, and you're learning. You have a good heart and today you can do something good.

Keep the pressure off your W. No R talk, unless she initiates. When you spend time with the kids, make it fun! Enjoy your time with them.

if you need to dump or vent, do it here, or with a trusted friend. Not to W's parents!

Stay strong. She wants you to be strong and stable for her.


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S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....