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[SirPrizeMe]

Same thing with me!
(No! I'm not talking about meeting husband in Vegas... not that there's anything wrong with that...)

My wife questioned me about being unfaithful. This was well after she filed divorce papers. When she asked me, I paused, looked in her eyes, told her no. She said "I don't trust you."

Then she proceeded to ask me seven different ways - did I ever sleep with anyone else, did I ever have sex with anyone else, have I ever dated anyone else during our marriage, etc etc. Like it was Bill Clinton's lawyer. I assured her again I did not. I told her I thought about it, but decided it wasn't for me.

She said, "Well, you never lie." (not to her, not about big stuff, and she knows it). I could see her trying to figure out how she can have such suspiscions in her mind, yet they are totally unfounded. I was thinking - "it's just like everything else, baby! Your own guilt being projected onto me!" But I said nothing.

I wish she would drop it. Drop the guilt. Too bad she feels like she has to wreck the marriage to do so.