I felt the same way, FA! It's so hard to decide which road to go down. I remember thinking, "how much time do I give him, and how do I know how much is just wasted time?" Sometimes, we just have to go with the flow, until we hit a rock, and then deal with that when/if it happens.
I just started a new job too! So far, not a very busy one, but I hope it will get so eventually. I hate twiddling my thumbs at work, when I could be doing something else at home.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim