I haven't really brought up working on the R in the past. I've let her know that I'm open to it and that she still has a place in my heart and my home. She doesn't ever really say much to that though.
I don't see it as a 2x4, just a much needed reminder. I feel like I've been traveling on the road for a long time, but compared to others I'm still a beginner. Patience is very hard for me. I think that I do alright though.
I am working on myself. A lot and it is a HUGE undertaking. I agree with you there. I need to learn to appreciate the positives and just be happy with those instead of wanting more. Easier said than done. At least for me anyways...
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008