She has shown that, with a hard road in front of her, no matter what crap she may SAY, she will ACT indecisively and wait for some kind of miracle. Don't let her delude herself that she'll get the kids - show her that you are a strong, loving dad who will do whatever it takes to keep your kids in your life.
Funny story, just this morning she said to me, "Where are the names for those couneslors for the kids? Why haven't you given them to me yet? Funny, you were all gung-ho about getting this done last week, but now you're dragging your feet." Um... pot, meet kettle... kettle, pot. I bit my tongue and got her the info...
But thanks for the wake-up Rob. However, given her state of mind, I have little doubt that she is going to move forward and file in less than 60 days.